Home Ownership

Amazingly I haven't burned it down yet.  Despite my tampering with electricity, messing with the furnace, and attempting repairs I have never done before, I haven't burned down Becky's and my new home yet.  

I am returning from a bit of a break from the blogging world.  This past month has been extremely busy, mostly because Becky and I bought our first home so my daily trip to Home Depot has replaced any type of writing.  Things are beginning to fall back into a bit of groove though, so I am hoping to be writing and reading more.

A few have been asking, so let me give a bit of an update.  We are fairly settled into the house.  Although we are still trying to figure out where everything will permanently go, there are no boxes left to unpack.  We are also starting to fix things up here, and there, so hopefully by the end of this week Jack's room will no longer be pink!  

A few have also asked what I have enjoyed the most so far about home ownership.  There are so many aspects of home ownership I enjoy, but the best is that we (Jack) can be as loud as we want and it doesn't matter as there is no one in the apartment below us to annoy by jumping, screaming or just running around.  

Some have asked what I think about all the responsibility of owning a home….my first reaction is that there is a lot!  I had to buy my first snow shovel, and use it on the day we closed on the house!  Fixing everything, opposed to calling a landlord.  And then there is that mortgage payment each month….that just hurt for the first time this week!  Ouch!

Playing on One Buttock

I am not a musician. I have, however, had the privilege of knowing several gifted musicians throughout my life.  Those gifted musicians I know have many differences (different instruments & styles of music), but one thing I notice they have in common is that they all play with emotion.

I read recently that Benjamin Zander, long time conductor of the Boston Philharmonic Orchestra, encourages his musicians to become “One Buttock Players.” He doesn’t believe that you can truly convey music by simply playing it musically correct, you have to play it with emotion as well.  And when musicians play with emotion quite often you will see them rocking back and forth from one buttock to the other…thus becoming one buttock musicians.

To be a great musician takes emotion. In fact, no matter what your field is, it will take emotion to be great. If all your doing is going to work, punching the clock, sitting around waiting for it to be time to leave, how successful do you think you will be?  But, if you bring emotion, intensity, eagerness and determination to your job what can be accomplished then?

The same principle applies to your family, to your relationship with God, and to your personal life.  If you want to be successful in those areas you have to go after them with emotion as well.  If you want to see your marriage improve, you can’t be content to sit in front of the TV every night.  If you want your relationship with God to improve you can’t be okay with simply sitting on a pew each Sunday.

What do you think would happen in your job, your family, your relationship with God, if you went from being a two buttock to one buttock player? What do you think would happen if you gave it everything you got and held nothing back?

The Jesus Storybook Bible

If you have been looking for a great children’s Bible one you will want to check out is The Jesus Storybook Bible: Every Story Whispers His Name.  I was introduced to this Bible a year, or so, ago by a CCC’er who absolutely loves it.   I think I have read through most of it now, and I love it as well.  The Bible is designed for children ages 4-7, has wonderful illustrations and does a masterful job of showing Jesus as the story beneath all the stories in the Bible.

I am sure there are many places you can pick a copy up, but they sell for $13.00 on www.christianbook.com.

Heading West for Christmas

Pretty excited to be heading to Missouri with Becky and Jack for Christmas.  Both Becky and I grew up in Missouri, and our families are still there.  So, every year we take some time to travel back West to see them, and it is always a great time.  This year I am looking forward to spending some quality time loved ones, baking some Christmas cookies, riding some 4-wheelers, taking some down time to read, and just enjoying Christmas.

I am going to try to document some of my home town on this trip back, and perhaps share some of my reflections on growing up in small town Missouri here.  Stay tuned.

I Have A Confession….

I have a confession.  Although I have lived in New England for over 7 years now, I still do not like the Patriots. I know I run the risk of losing the confidence & respect of people from my church and community, but I just feel like I need to come clean.  Most weeks I find myself rooting for whoever it playing the Patriots, it doesn’t matter who it is.  I admit, my dislike of the Patriots is irrational.  I can’t really name anything in particular I don’t like about them…I just have a “bad feeling” every time I watch them play that makes me want to root for the other team.

Ironically, having grown up in St. Louis and going to several games with my parents, I still find myself following the Rams even though they are currently tied for worst record in the NFL (1-10).  Call me loyal I guess.

Anyway, tonight is Monday night, Patriots vs. Saints and I am saying go New Orleans!

Eat That Frog! – A Book Review

I actually finished reading Eat That Frog! a while back, but am just getting around to posting some thoughts.  As someone who often feels there is more to to than I can possibly get done I thought I would pick up this book on time management, as it came recommended by a friend.  Their recommendation was a good one, as the book did not disappoint.  I would recommend getting this book.  It will help you manage your time better.  Promise.  Here are few highlights from the book.

The first rule of frog eating is this: If you have to eat
two frogs, eat the ugliest one first.
This is another way of saying that if you have two important tasks
before you, start with the biggest, hardest, and most important task first (2).

The second rule of frog eating is this: If you have to eat a
frog at all, it doesn’t pay to sit and look at it for very long. The key to reaching high levels of
performance and productivity is to develop the lifelong habit of tackling your
major task first thing each morning (3).

“Failure to execute” is one of the biggest problems in
organizations today. Many people confuse
activity with accomplishment. The talk
continually, hold endless meetings, and make wonderful plans, but the final
analysis, not one does the job and get the results required” (3-4).

There is one quality that one must possess to win, and that
is definiteness of purpose, the knowledge of what one wants and a burning
desire to achieve it. Quoting Napoleon
Hill on page 9.

Here is a great rule for success: Think on paper. Only about 3 percent of adults have clear,
written goals. These people accomplish
five and ten times as much as people of equal of better education and ability
but who, for whatever reason, have never taken the time to write out exactly
what they want (10).

One of the very worst uses of time is to do something very
well that need not be done at all (10).

Before you begin scrambling up the ladder of success, make
sure that it is leaning against the right building.” Quoting Stephen Covey on page 10.

Planning is bringing the future into the present so that you
can do something about it now. Quoting
Alan Lakein on page 14.

The good news is that every minute spent planning saves as
many as ten minutes in execution. It
takes only about 10 to 12 minutes for you to plan out your day, but this small
investment of time will save you up to two hours (100 to 120 minutes) in wasted
time and diffused effort throughout the day (15).

We always have time enough, if we will but use it aright. Quoting Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe on page
20.

Rule: Resist the temptation to clear up small things first
(22).

Rule: Long-term thinking improves short-term decision making
(26).

The law of Forced Efficiency says that “There is never
enough time to do everything, but there is always enough time to do the most
important thing” (28).

Rule: There will never be enough time to do everything you
have to do.

Rule: You can get your time and your life under control only
to the degree to which you discontinue lower-value activities (34).

“Why am I on the payroll?”
This is one of the most important questions you can ever ask and answer,
over and over again, throughout your career (41).

Rule: You weakest key results area sets the height at which
you can use all your other skills and abilities (44).

What one skill, if I developed and did it in an excellent
fashion, would have the greatest positive impact on my career? (45).

Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. Quoting Theodore Roosevelt on page 47.

You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take. Quoting Wayne Getzky on page 58.

Persons with comparatively moderate powers will accomplish
much, if they apply themselves wholly and indefatigably to on thing at a
time. Quoting Samuel Smiles on page 60.

There is an old saying that “by the yard it’s hard; but inch
by inch, anything’s a cinch!” (60).

A journey of a thousand leagues begins with a single
step. Quoting Lao-tzu on page 60.

The only certain means of success is to render more and better
service than is expected of you, no matter what your task may be. Quoting Og Madino on page 63.

Anytime you stop striving to get better, you’re bound to get
worse. Quoting Pat Riley on page 63.

Rule: Continuous
learning is the minimum requirement for success in any field (64).

Concentrate all your thoughts on the task at hand. The sun’s rays do not burn until brought into
a focus. Quoting Alexander Graham Bell
on page 70.

Only about 2 percent of the people can work entirely without
supervision. We call these people
“leaders.” This is the kind of person
you are meant to be and that you can be, if you decide to be (76).

Imagine each day that you have just received an emergency
message and that you will have to leave town tomorrow for a month. If you had to leave town for a month, what
you make absolutely sure that you got done before you left? (77).

The fact is that your productivity begins to decline after
eight or nine hours of work. For this
reason, working long hours into the night, although sometimes necessary means
that you are usually producing less and less in more and more time (80-81).

There is more to life than just increasing its speed. Quoting Gandhi on page 89.

The beginning of a habit is like an invisible thread, but
every time we repeat the act we strengthen the strand, add to it another
filament, until it becomes a great cable and binds us irrevocably, thought and
act. Quoting Orison Swett Marden on page
97.

It has been estimated that the tendency to start and stop a
task – to pick it up, put it down, and come back to it- can increase the time
necessary to complete the task by as much as 500 percent (110).

10 Year Anniversary

The other day when I took my truck to get an oil change I realized I missed a very important anniversary a few months ago.  My truck and I have been together for over 10 years now. I bought my truck right before I showed up for classes at Central Bible College.  So, she and I have been through a lot together (yes, my truck is a she.  In fact, Becky named her Lucy a few years back).

In honor of our 10 year anniversary I officially enrolled my truck in the Junky Car Club (www.junkycarclub.com/).  Hoping my truck can hang in there a few more years, so I can save some more money by not having a car loan.

Free Apps to Make Life Easier

Here are a few free ideas I have found that are making my life a little easier to manage… 

1. xMarks – Keeps all the bookmarks I have saved synchronized on all my computers.  So whether I am at work, at home, or traveling, I have every bookmark accessible that I have saved, regardless of the computer I saved it on.  www.xmarks.com

2. Dropbox – Keeps all my files synchronized, accessible on every computer and backed up.  And hey, the beginner version is free!  https://www.getdropbox.com

3. TweetDeck – Allows for an easy way to post and track multiple people on both Twitter and Facebook, without getting overwhelmed.  http://www.tweetdeck.com/

4. Google Docs – Great way to share documents with the team at church.  http://docs.google.com/

5. Google Reader – Easy way to follow multiple blogs without having to go to each persons site, or get every post emailed to you.  Just log in and read.  http://www.google.com/reader/

6. Google Groups – Easy way to think through an idea with the team.  Simply create a post and let others chime in with their thoughts and ideas.  http://groups.google.com/

7. Logmein – Remote control several computers from any other computer.  Works well for troubleshooting without having to physically go to the broken computer.  https://secure.logmein.com/US/home.aspx

8. Mint – Still experimenting with this one a bit, but an easy way to track your finances online for free.  http://www.mint.com/

I'm sure there are other great free sites and apps out there, what are they?

Not For Sale

It is not an easy book to read.

I just finished Not For Sale by David Batstone, which documents perhaps the greatest moral crisis of our day…human slavery.  To me it is unthinkable that human trafficking worldwide generates $31 billion annually and currently enslaves over 27 million people, half of them under the age of 18, but it does.

Again, it is not an easy book to read, as the stories of those who have been exploited will break your heart, but Batstone weaves their stories with stories of people across the globe who are fighting to end human slavery.  These encouraging stories share how people are fighting to make a difference in places like Cambodia, Thailand, Uganda, Europe, Peru and even right here in the United States. This book forced me to look for ways I can make a difference in fighting this global problem from where I am at, right here just North of Boston.

I would encourage everyone to read this book.

Also, it is not an organization mentioned in the book, but you should check out The A21 Campaign (http://www.thea21campaign.org/).  They are doing some pretty amazing work to combat human trafficking.

Beyond the Soiled Curtain

I have been on a pretty good reading kick lately.  Just finished the book, Beyond the Soiled Curtain by David and Beth Grant.  This book provides a glimpse of Falkland Road in Bombay, and reveals the atrocity of human trafficking and what organizations like Project Rescue (http://www.projectrescue.com/) are doing to combat it.

A few stats from the book regarding those sold into the sex-slave industry….

– Some are sold into a life of prostitution by their families for as little as $150.

– The average age of someone sold into prostitution is 13.

– 1 million children each year are exploited in the global commercial sex trade.

– 50% of all trafficking victims worldwide are children.

– 2.3 million girls and women work as prostitutes and madams in India alone.

– 400 million in revenue is generated each year by Bombay’s red light district.

I could go on, but I won’t.  I encourage you to check out the book.  It is an easy read in the sense that it is not dense reading, but in the sense you will come face-to-face with the ugly side of the world we live in, it is a very difficult book to take in.

On a related note, I was also introduced to another organization combating human trafficking, focusing on those in Greece.  You can check them out at http://www.thea21campaign.org/.